Who Itās For
Youāre a thoughtful, committed dog guardian. You love your dogābut some days are harder than you imagined. Youāre facing behavior that doesnāt make sense, advice that doesnāt sit right, and the sinking feeling that no matter what you try, itās not working.
Maybe your dog is too sensitive, too intense, or just doesnāt fit the mold. Walks are tense. You havenāt had company over in ages. Youāve skipped happy hours, canceled plans, and started doing more things alone. Your world feels smallerāand sometimes you wonder if your partner resents how much life now revolves around the dog.
Youāre torn between doing right by your dog and reclaiming a life that works for you, too. You imagined partnership. Now you just want to understand your dogāand support them in a way that brings peace to both of you.
What We Do
At Paws & Reflect San Diego, I help families move beyond obedience drills and symptom-chasing to uncover whatās really driving their dogās behavior.
We apply the LEGS frameworkāLearning, Environment, Genetics, and Selfāto explore the full picture of who your dog is and what they need to thrive. Then we build a plan that supports both ends of the leash.
The Transformation
Itās not about fixing your dog. Itās about finally understanding them.
Together, weāll create routines, boundaries, and relationships that feel goodānot just functional. Confusion becomes clarity. Guilt fades into confidence. Instead of tiptoeing around your dogās quirks, youāll know how to meet their needs while living your own life, too.
The result? A calmer home. A more connected bond. And a training plan that actually fits your real life.
Why Me
Iām a Victoria Stilwell Certified Trainer and Family Dog MediatorĀ®, specializing in misunderstood dogs with big feelingsāand the people who love them.
I bring a modern, evidence-based approach thatās free of judgment and full of compassion. Every session is grounded in collaboration, curiosity, and practical change.
I stay current with the latest in behavior science through ongoing training, coursework, and professional communitiesāso you get tools that work, not trends or outdated techniques.
Find the Right Fit for You and Your Dog
$1295 - $1895
The bond starts here.
Welcoming a puppy into your life is excitingāand letās be honest, sometimes overwhelming. Whether you're a first-time dog parent or itās just been a while, this program is here to help you feel confident and supported every step of the way.
Together, weāll build trust, establish routines, and teach your puppy how to navigate the human world with joy and resilience. This is about creating a relationship you both can grow intoānot just checking off boxes.
$1295 - $2395
The clarity starts here.
Loving your dog is easyābut living together isnāt always. When behavior challenges leave you feeling frustrated, confused, or in over your head, this program helps you reset with compassion and structure.
Weāll focus on building understanding, routines, and communication that make daily life smootherāfor both of you. Itās not about fixing your dog. Itās about creating a relationship where you both feel safe, seen, and supported.
Real World Ready (Coming Soon)
$1295 - $1895
The confidence grows here.
This field trip mini-series is designed for clients who want to continue their journey and bring their dogās skills into the real world. Together, weāll practice in everyday settings like parks, cafĆ©s, Sniffspots, and local shops.
With guided support, you and your dog will learn to navigate distractions, new environments, and daily challengesāso you can step into the world feeling more connected and capable than ever.
Credit will be applied toward your package price.
Guided Growth (Coming Soon)
$249
The support starts here.
You donāt have to do it all yourself. With Guided Growth, Iāll work directly with your dog to build early skills and patternsāwhile you keep up with life. Each session lays the groundwork for calm, connection, and confidence.
Then, we meet to transfer that progress into your daily routineāso youāre never left wondering what to do next, and your dog keeps growing with you.
Credentials That Support You
Iām proud to be certified by and affiliated with these leading organizations in humane, science-based dog behavior and training.